Why Did I Ever Like You?!
Posted on 11. Apr, 2010 by E.Carmel in Life and Style, Men & Women
During my 23 years in a world of my own, I have found that one of the hardest hurdles to jump over is the ‘getting over him/her’ hurdle, that hurdle is fricking high!
Then you have people in your ear telling you that you’ll find someone better so you should ‘just’ move on…yeah I blaaady would [...]
Seven things a Guy should NEVER say to a Girl
Posted on 22. Feb, 2010 by E.Carmel in Life and Style, Men & Women
“You’ve put on weight..?”
Now why would you even go there?!? No matter how comfortable you become with your girl, there are certain lines that can just never be crossed and talking about her weight is one of them. Questioning her weight means that you’re questioning your interest in her and attraction towards her.
It can make [...]
Sometimes Sex Doesn’t Sell
Posted on 19. Feb, 2010 by E.Carmel in Entertainment, Life and Style, Music
So Im chilling with my friend and we were having our usual music breakdown banter when Ciara’s name popped up. Unsurprisingly he said that he actually really enjoyed Ciara’s last album Fantasy Ride and thinks the production was better than a lot of her previous work.
I say unsurprisingly because I know a fair amount of [...]
Hey…Daddy?!
Posted on 02. Feb, 2010 by E.Carmel in Life and Style, Men & Women
It took weeks, months, heck maybe even a year or two, of scratching my head, itching my weave…..just trying to figure out why some men (maybe most) like to be referred to as ‘daddy’ during intimacy…I just didn’t get it. Call me immature but I was like ‘ewww!’ why would anyone want to think about [...]
The F Word…
Posted on 17. Jan, 2010 by E.Carmel in Education, Inspiration
…is ‘FOCUS’.
Everyone has a dream; a vision.
Everyone has a mission.
We walk through life on roads; some choose the narrow that leads to eternity while most of us choose the wide, broad road that leads to destruction…
Like roads however, without ‘focus’, you create your own destruction. Without focus you lose control; without focus your world [...]
Top 12 Fashionistas of 2009
Posted on 02. Jan, 2010 by E.Carmel in Fashion, Life and Style
2009 has brought a whole new range of fashion trends with new faces and figures ending the decade on a high with a nice blend of expensive and reasonable priced clothing. As usual my top fashionistas are based on those who promote high fashion with their own sense of style.
Giving 2 more places for my [...]
Top 20 Dancers
Posted on 15. Dec, 2009 by E.Carmel in Entertainment
“The truest expression of a people is in its dance and in its music. Bodies never lie”. ~Agnes de Mille
What started as a top 10 list proved very difficult to maintain with an endless number of great dancers gracing the world with contemporary, creative and original dance and choreography.
Dance comes in a variety [...]
Throwback Post: Red Light
Posted on 13. Oct, 2009 by E.Carmel in Life and Style, Real Talk
Straight to the point, here are a few things that I think need to be brought to a halt…
1. ‘Independent Women’ songs…stop producing them, stop writing them, stop singing and/or rapping them. I can see what you are trying to do (Ne-yo)! You are brainwashing us to think it’s cool and trendy to be (or [...]
Curly Kinky….Cool?
Posted on 01. Oct, 2009 by E.Carmel in Fashion, Life and Style
In the past year or so we have seen many hairstyle crazes amongst women of colour, most notably the short/shaved hair look. I wonder what’s going to be next…natural hair maybe? From when women of colour started cutting let alone shaving their hair, that was making a statement since black women have been obsessed with [...]
The Side Shave Gets The Side Eye
Posted on 15. Aug, 2009 by E.Carmel in Fashion, Life and Style
So what would you like, the half Britney or the full Britney? Remember when Britney Spears shaved her hair and everyone thought she was crazy? Well maybe she was at the time, but I guess now shaving your hair off isn’t so crazy anymore. It seems as though the world of hair and beauty has [...]









