5 SURE FIRE SIGNS THAT SHOW YOUR MAN IS CHEATING….OR AT LEAST PLANNING TO!!!

Posted on 11. Dec, 2009 by G.Anaman in Life and Style, Men & Women

5. There are OFTEN times when you dont know his whereabouts

Ladies, when your man gives you vague information about his planned activities for a period of time, it’s time to become suspicious. Common examples are, “babes I gotta go see my auntie to sort some stuff out” or “babes, my cousin needs me to help him sort some stuff out”. Nonsense!!! Do not accept such vague stories.

They are purposely vague so that afterwards, any questioning about what he was actually doing can be answered by a wide variety of answers. Again, common examples are, “No my cousin had some issues with his car” or “my auntie needed me to help her move some heavy things about”…psshh.

Even better still is, “My boy’s having some girlfriend issues so I had to go and make sure he was doing ok”. This is the best one because the cheating boyfriend kills a lot of birds with one stone. Not only does he cheat, he even portrays that he is a good guy; a caring, sensitive and helpful guy…all of the “qualities” that you probably value in him.

4. He won’t ever let you answer or go through his phone.

This is usually a clear sign. You may notice that when you are both together, he will answer phone calls from his family or his male friends however there may be certain phone calls that he doesn’t. When these phone calls or text messages come through he may act in one of two ways.

Firstly he may seem to look hard at his phone and explicitly say something like “oh, I’ll call back later, it’s probably nothing”. Alternatively he may silence the call and say absolutely nothing as if to say “what phone?!?” Either way, if he really is true to you and you are completely honest with each other then he should have absolutely no problem in answering the call or responding to the text in front of you.

Better still if he is not by the phone and a private number calls, he should feel absolutely comfortable in you answering his phone, after all….what has he got to hide? The most clear cut sign that your boyfriend may be cheating or at least planning to is if he takes his phone EVERYWHERE with him (even to the toilet).

3. He does not want to put on Facebook that he is in a relationship with you.

So you are both on Facebook and you are in a relationship with each other and you suggest that since the option to display this in you’re relationship status is there why not take advantage of it. After all, surely it is better than the other options of “single”, “it’s complicated” and “is in an open relationship”. Now your man may argue that isn’t putting “in a relationship” enough.

The answer to that is if you’re happy to have just that as each others relationship status then yes it is enough but if it’s your preference that you display your relationship in all its glory by having each others name included in the relationship status then it’s far from enough. I think it’s fair to say that the only reason your man may refuse to change his relationship status to this is because he is not willing for all those with access to both of your Facebook pages to know that he is in a relationship with you.

Any excuse from him that he does not want his personal information out there must be dismissed immediately!! The very fact that he is on Facebook shows willingness to his personal life being exposed to the highest level. Facebook being the leading “networking” site now is a players dream when it comes to him finding new victims to seduce. He can literally pick and choose what he prefers at any given time….perhaps a blonde today? Or maybe a tall light skinned girl? Ooooo what about the girl from that rave the other night… I bet I can find her!

2. He has plans to go on a clubbing holiday.

This has always been a classic sign that your man is planning to cheat. If your man tells you that he and his boys are planning to go on a clubbing holiday he will cheat if the opportunity presents itself…..it really is as simple as that.

1. He doesn’t want to go raving with you.

Just like on Facebook, if your man is not willing to display your relationship in full view of the public in a generally recognised mating ground, then it is quite likely that it is because he is not ready to hang up his player’s jersey yet. Bottom line, there may be girls at the rave that he may want the option of getting to know and if you’re there….that makes things a lot harder for him.

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