Seven things a Guy should NEVER say to a Girl

Posted on 22. Feb, 2010 by E.Carmel in Life and Style, Men & Women

“You’ve put on weight..?”

Now why would you even go there?!? No matter how comfortable you become with your girl, there are certain lines that can just never be crossed and talking about her weight is one of them. Questioning her weight means that you’re questioning your interest in her and attraction towards her.

It can make a woman who used to do double takes in every mirror she walked past, now have a phobia for mirrors and any food that will make her gain even more weight. There is certainly nothing worse than a woman who feels insecure about her body. If you ever say these words, be prepared to face the consequences of only ever seeing her naked in the DARK!

“She’s hot!!!”

Unless ‘she’ happens to be ‘me’, this will not go down too well…at all! Things will be made even worse if you’re talking about the friend or better yet…the sister! Even if you said it innocently, your girl will automatically see this friend or relative as a threat which will create unnecessary tension. Your girl needs to be convinced that you think there’s no one hotter than her…even if that is so not true! So next time you see that friend of hers (who also happens to be single) looking like she just walked out of a magazine cover…take my advice, keep your thoughts to yourself!

“My ex used to…”

Do I have to elaborate on this one? Ex-girlfriend comparisons are an ultimate NO NO! To be compared to another woman is a negative in itself let alone a woman you were once in a relationship with.

The more you talk about your ex, the more you’re indicating that you’re not completely over her and no woman wants to be a rebound. So if an ex-comparison ever slips up, make sure it’s one that favours your girl otherwise…you’re in trouble!

“She’s a friend…”

Well you would say that wouldn’t you!? Women can always smell a threat, some like to make it sound like a God-given talent by calling it ‘intuition’ while others will admit to it being just pure paranoia! If a female friend is very attractive, gets along with you like cheese on toast and oh, she also happens to be ‘single’…this is enough to set the paranoia alarm off like crazy!

So if she ever questions the extent of your friendship with this ‘threat’, don’t just say she’s a friend, you need to elaborate! Saying the words ‘she’s just a friend’ should always come with an affix i.e. ‘because’. So always say something along the lines of…because she’s like an older sister, or because she dated your good friend or even because you simply find her so fricking irritating. All that is needed are a few simple words to elaborate why she could never be more than a friend, to help reassure us that this ‘threat’ really isn’t a threat after all.

“I’ve slept with…”

Hmmm, this is a tricky one. Whilst a lot of women would prefer to have the number of women you have slept with left unrevealed…some women would actually like to know. After all let’s face it; it does give a pretty decent indication of what type of guy you’re dealing with…certain numbers just scream out ‘Player! I will definitely cheat on you!’ So I’d say, to avoid any hiccups, don’t ever bring this up unless she does.

“I love you…”

Do you really? If you don’t really mean it, then don’t say it. The female brain takes these words very seriously. Expressing your love to her will indicate that you’re ready to take things to the next level. This will put her hopes to an all time high, and when there’s absolutely no progress being made by you, she will feel let down and hurt…negative feelings that could have been avoided if she had clearly known that you aren’t readyto take the next step. Unfortunately, there are many girls out there who have heard these very words and what are they doing now…? They are out there singing along passionately to Single Ladies, ‘if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it!’

"What Did You Just Say!?!"

“I never want to get married!”

What did you just say?! Not only is this not a mature thing to say but it instantly shoots down the chances of that woman sticking around. If a guy ever told me that during the early stages, I probably would moonwalk out because I just wouldn’t take him as a serious guy.

A good 97% of women would love to be married with kids in the future; it’s almost mandatory for this to happen. Therefore, they go into relationships that have long term potential and they would like to believe that eventually he will put a ring on it.

So to say that getting married is nowhere in your future plans is basically saying that you want to be a bachelor forever…this is not a good look for women seeking commitment. Even side chicks hope to become the misses someday…these words should never be said, period

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